How do you 4H leaders make it so the parents dont take over the kids 4H project. Ive never had this problem before but recently the families in our club wont let the kids do anything! I understand they are trying to learn as well and have the experience but they clip the goats for them, handle all the goats maintenance (feed, vet appointments etc) The kids go to fairs not knowing how to do anything and the parents use this as an excuse to keep them from doing anything. What do I do? Has anyone else been seeing this?