Hello, first post. I bought 5 ND about a month ago, two mamma does in milk and 3 kids. Gorgeous, all of them. High quality stock. I feel like i have the mechanics worked out. But my milk goat - who is a lap goat lol - is utterly miserable. They come from a busy farm. Used to ppl 24/7 i think. Lots more goats. My girl is losing weight, stands at the gate all day crying. We sit with her and she accepts attention ... but within a few minutes is back crying at the gate again. Watching for ppl who arent there. The other doe has never been milked. And im not milking my milk doe bc shes lost weight. is the humane thing to work out a return with the breeder? I dont even care about the money. Im so damn sad i hate even going out back now.