How can i tame my pygmy kid

We are new too, have had our two Pygmy girls, Razzle and Dazzle, for about 3 1/2 months. They are almost six months old. Razzle was friendly from the beginning but Dazzle was very skittish. She stayed arms length or more away from us at all times and would even back away from her grain if we tried to touch her. She would stand firm and stare us straight in the eyes a lot. We started saying "she has trust issues!" And she did. She has slowly warmed up as we kept consistently showing her that she could trust us not to chase her or hurt her, and that we are the ones caring for her and feeding her. She's still a little bit hesitant once on a while, but basically comes right to us (hoping we have treats!) and will climb up on our laps voluntarily now to be petted. Hopefully your girl is just afraid to trust you and will warm up as she sees you are taking gentle care of her. As for the rearing up, ours do that to play with each other, is there a chance she thinks she's playing?

I agree, let them come to you. We have this adorable little Nubian/Pygmy boy that is so little, and I bought him just because he was solid black and had this sweet little white heart marking on his side. His name is Romeo but it should be Nascar because he is so fast and wild as an antelope! I had tried everything to tame him including the sitting in the chair in a small pen idea, but he was just terrified of people. They love sweet grain, and I just quit putting anything in a feedbin and left only their hay and water out everyday, and when I would come home from work they would be all hungry and yelling MAAAAAAA. I let him see me feed my little buckling and doe and sure enough he was right there with them letting me feed him by hand and pet all over him. Now he is the first one in line running up to me after two months of trying to chase him down!lol