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No one should call you names. Name calling is completely unproductive and is abusive. Someone who calls you names only wants to bring you down; they aren't trying to help you be better.
I know it's your mom, but that doesn't make the behavior more appropriate. Unless you have no other options I wouldn't recommend building on your family's land or moving in with your parents. The stress will eventually cause a rift you may never be able to heal. It's much better to hurt her feelings a little now, than deal with the abuse until you eventually no longer want a relationship with each other.
I know it's your mom, but that doesn't make the behavior more appropriate. Unless you have no other options I wouldn't recommend building on your family's land or moving in with your parents. The stress will eventually cause a rift you may never be able to heal. It's much better to hurt her feelings a little now, than deal with the abuse until you eventually no longer want a relationship with each other.
