My 13 yr. old daughter would like to be more involved with my goats. I also want to have someone in the house as a back-up goat milker for those times when I can't do it for whatever reason. I've been having my daughter help me and even milk each of the does so that she can learn, obviously. My does don't want her milking them! They start kicking their back feet and my daughter can't milk them unless she ties their feet down. Is this normal? Shouldn't they let anyone milk them? They let me milk them when I got them from their previous owners with never a problem. My daughter had to milk them for me about 3 weeks ago at night because I was gone; it was the first and only time thus far. The next several days the does were all afraid of getting on the milk stand and were just more skittish than normal. I don't believe my daughter did anything to them but she probably did get frustrated. I don't want to get into it but just because it may be important... my daughter is adopted and does have some mental health issues (not aggression), could the goats be feeling something different from her? What can I do to get my goats to let her milk them?