Well, speaking as someone who grew up on a fairly large working farm....let's see. Long hours...rain, shine, snow, wind...don't matter, work has to get done. Your life gets put on hold during certain seasons. I can remember many years of watching 4th of July fireworks from the harvest field. Watching your crops all get hailed out in a 5 minute storm....yep. Planting season....praying for rain to bring the seed up and praying it waits til you at least get the seed planted and basically trying to run 24 hours a day to get it all in. Harvest....praying no hail hits to ruin your crop that has hopefully had enough rain to actually make a crop, praying for no rain so that you can get in the field to harvest whatever is there. You notice we do a lot of praying about rain??? LOL Keeping equipment running for whatever process we were in the middle of. Do you realize what NEW equipment COSTS???? Like my dad told someone one time....there's a tractor and a combine: that's 500,000 right there. And there is no equipment with it so you can't do anything with it until you spend more money to get the pieces of equipment you need. And repairing it isn't cheap either!!
So...let's move on to livestock. We had 45 head cow/calf operation. Calving season....2 hour checks day and night in miserable weather to make sure no one was having any problems. Worrying about that rain again, cause calving in rain and mud is no fun and not super easy on the babies either. Hoping that it IS only rain and not snow and ice! Praying for rain to come at the right time so the pasture is good and green and has enough grass that we don't have to start buying feed too soon. Checking animals daily to make sure no one is sick or out of the pens. Having to bring in sick animals (that really don't want your help) in order to take care of them. Feeding in the winter...snow, wind, blizzards, etc. The animals have to get fed. Get sick??? LMAO Yeah, you don't have time to get sick and if you do, you still have to take care of your crops and your animals. Period.
Why do we farm??? Heck after reading that I dunno! Seriously tho. There is nothing like looking at a field of fresh growing wheat and knowing that YOU made that happen (with a lot of help from nature) Watching it grow and mature into a beautiful ocean of amber grain (you know...amber waves of grain) Same with corn...watching those rows of corn growing and maturing. Knowing that YOU are helping feed the world. The smell of freshly turned dirt, the smell of freshly harvested grain, the smell of fresh mown hay. That first time in wheat harvest when you pick a handful of wheat out of the truck and chew it into "gum". Looking at a herd of healthy animals and watching the babies run and play!
Farming is HARD work, no matter how you look at it. Yes, you are your own boss. That also means that it is all your responsibility too. If you don't plant, you won't reap. Period. You have to be willing to give up a lot of other things because planting, harvest etc don't wait for you to decide you have time or want to do it. I can remember my dad being a little upset that I was pregnant and due during corn harvest! We planned weddings around planting and harvest. It's a lot of long hours for little money (one of the first years that I rented some land and farmed along with my dad and brother I made a whopping $25 at the end of the year on my tax forms!!!) Would I trade growing up that way? Nope. Not for anything. I learned responsibility. I learned how to be a steward of the land. I learned about birth, life and death. I learned to appreciate the beauty in all of nature. I learned where our food truly comes from and what it takes to put it on the table. I also learned how to do without and that life wouldn't end cause I didn't get to go to the fireworks display!