This post is like 5 years old, and not sure what you are implying? We work very hard for everything we have. We own everything we have and don't ask for any hand outs. When I made this post years ago the farm wanted us to move there because they planned to give my husband a big promotion and usually farms will require that promotion status to live on the farm. But, they are awesome people and let him decide. So sadly, that big beautiful house they built for us has mostly been vacant over the years...I learned from my parents to work hard for what I want and not ask for handouts. I am a project management assistant for a construction company during the day and a warehouse associate during at night. It gets very difficult, but nothing good comes easy and I'm gonna work hard to accomplish my goals for as long as the Lord allows me to.