I'm just here to rant.
We moved out to our 8 acre hobby Farm almost 10 years ago. Our kids grew up here learning a slow paced country lifestyle and helped around the farm, learned to take care of animals and garden. We have a variety of animals around the farm and we've made this a nice little happy place.
The closest neighboring farm is about a third of a mile away and unfortunately too close. When we first moved in there was an older, kind of grumpy couple that lived next door that we didn't have much interaction with. We figured people moved to the country for peace and quiet and they kept mostly to themselves and that's okay. We could hear them out doing things on occasion, but nothing overly annoying. Fast forward 6 years and they sold to move closer to family. A younger couple in their late twenties moved in. We met them once in the two and a half years they lived there. They were seriously never home and we called them the never-homes! Again, ok by us. Sadly that couple parted ways forcing them to sell.
That brings us to present day, AKA last weekend. The new family has arrived. I have to say my worst fears have come true. I was worried about what kind of neighbors we would get next living in this quiet happy bubble for 10 years. Not only are they building an addition according to the previous neighbor who reached out to me but they also have several children who like to ride their dirt bikes and razor vehicle on private roads and in the pasture that they share a fence line with us where I keep my goats. They started at 7:30 in the morning over the weekend and didn't end until basically dark. This new noise factor is going to take some serious getting used to. They've even been out a couple weekday mornings that early for a short time maybe before they go to school. So far my goats are not impressed and if they're out in the pasture grazing and they come out they run back to the barn. I know they'll get used to it and it'll just be another noise for them. So long as the kids don't start antagonizing them or realizing they can make my fainters faint by driving towards them there will be nothing I can say or do but tolerate this new normal.
The other issue is, running parallel to our private road which they've stayed off of thankfully because ours posted, is a private oilfield road. The parents have been letting them ride up and down that road at top speeds. We've lived here long enough to know that some of those drivers pop over that hill going 70 miles an hour. I need to muster up the courage to walk down there and introduce myself but the last thing I want to do is be the naggy neighbor right off the bat saying don't let your kids do that... but they don't know what they don't know I guess. I would feel awful if something happened to one of their children. I was a bit of a tattletale today because I saw one of the oil field gals parked so I went over and visited with her about what was going on and my fears for her staff safety as well as these children. I know I did the right thing but I still feel like a tattletale.
I know this is the way things go sometimes but I feel like I've been robbed of my happy quiet Farm bubble and I'm so upset. My husband feels the same but is less passionate about it than me. I am hoping and praying we will get along nicely and that this novelty will wear off but they look like pretty serious dirt bikers with their gear and all.
The manipulative side of me has already started thinking how I could be more of a nuisance to them🤣
Thanks for listening and hopefully no one is commiserating!
We moved out to our 8 acre hobby Farm almost 10 years ago. Our kids grew up here learning a slow paced country lifestyle and helped around the farm, learned to take care of animals and garden. We have a variety of animals around the farm and we've made this a nice little happy place.
The closest neighboring farm is about a third of a mile away and unfortunately too close. When we first moved in there was an older, kind of grumpy couple that lived next door that we didn't have much interaction with. We figured people moved to the country for peace and quiet and they kept mostly to themselves and that's okay. We could hear them out doing things on occasion, but nothing overly annoying. Fast forward 6 years and they sold to move closer to family. A younger couple in their late twenties moved in. We met them once in the two and a half years they lived there. They were seriously never home and we called them the never-homes! Again, ok by us. Sadly that couple parted ways forcing them to sell.
That brings us to present day, AKA last weekend. The new family has arrived. I have to say my worst fears have come true. I was worried about what kind of neighbors we would get next living in this quiet happy bubble for 10 years. Not only are they building an addition according to the previous neighbor who reached out to me but they also have several children who like to ride their dirt bikes and razor vehicle on private roads and in the pasture that they share a fence line with us where I keep my goats. They started at 7:30 in the morning over the weekend and didn't end until basically dark. This new noise factor is going to take some serious getting used to. They've even been out a couple weekday mornings that early for a short time maybe before they go to school. So far my goats are not impressed and if they're out in the pasture grazing and they come out they run back to the barn. I know they'll get used to it and it'll just be another noise for them. So long as the kids don't start antagonizing them or realizing they can make my fainters faint by driving towards them there will be nothing I can say or do but tolerate this new normal.
The other issue is, running parallel to our private road which they've stayed off of thankfully because ours posted, is a private oilfield road. The parents have been letting them ride up and down that road at top speeds. We've lived here long enough to know that some of those drivers pop over that hill going 70 miles an hour. I need to muster up the courage to walk down there and introduce myself but the last thing I want to do is be the naggy neighbor right off the bat saying don't let your kids do that... but they don't know what they don't know I guess. I would feel awful if something happened to one of their children. I was a bit of a tattletale today because I saw one of the oil field gals parked so I went over and visited with her about what was going on and my fears for her staff safety as well as these children. I know I did the right thing but I still feel like a tattletale.
I know this is the way things go sometimes but I feel like I've been robbed of my happy quiet Farm bubble and I'm so upset. My husband feels the same but is less passionate about it than me. I am hoping and praying we will get along nicely and that this novelty will wear off but they look like pretty serious dirt bikers with their gear and all.
The manipulative side of me has already started thinking how I could be more of a nuisance to them🤣
Thanks for listening and hopefully no one is commiserating!